Yesterday I had the results of some tests and I don’t have cancer or diabetes, which is a relief of course, although curiously it does mean I either either have ‘something else’ or nothing, both options being quite unsettling.
Anyway, there is nothing like being tested for cancer to focus the mind and my initial thoughts were money based (actually, that’s a lie, but for the benefit of the blog lets pretend they were) and it occurs to me that there is plenty of support and help for people with serious illnesses, but the financial side of things needs to be looked at and probably in quite an unemotional kind of a way.
My objective here is to get into a position where you are feeling in control and making the most of what you have.
The first thing you need is 2 sheets of paper.
On the 1st put everything you have – savings, house, etc. And everything you owe – credit cards, mortgage loans etc. Just as an idea put the credit limit by the balance of each credit card.
The second sheet is for income and expenditure – your bank statements will help here.
Next make a list of places you have worked and note which ones might have offered you a pension – possible if you worked there for over 2 years. Then make a list of insurance, savings or any other life policies you may have had. If the insurance or pension company has changed its name or been taken over, the Association of British Insurers http://www.abi.org.uk/Search/default.asp will tell you the latest name or new owner.
If you have shares, make a list. You can get the prices from a newspaper or the internet.
With pensions, ask who the Nominated Beneficiaries are – the people who will get that pension benefit if you die before taking them. This may need updating especially if you have married or now have children, for example.
Now the biggest questions.
How long have you been given or what are your chances? Will you be able to continue working? Will you be able to travel or drive a car? Will you need care? Who might be able to help you?
If you have more than two years, then you might as well carry on as normal for as long as possible. But if you have less than two years to live, it is time to think. There is nothing sadder than dying thinking “If only”. But strangely, a short life expectancy may enable you to achieve one or two of your goals, that you might not have bothered about otherwise.
Take another piece of paper, and write some headings: People, Things, Places. You might want to adapt this with headings like: Family, Colleagues, Hobbies, Sports. Now the fun part, and yes I mean you ought to be able to get some enjoyment out of this. What have you always wanted to do? Pretend you have won the Lottery and let your mind run free here and don’t bother about the practicalities. Keep the list handy and a notepad and pencil with you so you can write things down as they pop into your mind. It does not matter how long the list is or how many items are on it.
Once you have done the above exercises you will have:
A financial picture of you.
Your doctors have told how long you have got and what quality of life you can expect for that time.
A list of everything you wanted to achieve.
Achieving some of the goals will need money, but you may have more than you think, which is the real point behind this exercise.
The surprises here can be pensions & life policies. Critical Illness Benefit is where a lump-sum will be paid after the claim paperwork has been done and checked and covers many (but not all) cancers. Most life insurance policies have Terminal Illness Benefit, This means that if your life expectancy is less than 12 months, they will pay out while you are alive. ( This will depend on what answers your GP gives to the insurance company) I have a client who asked me to look through her paperwork and we found a policy with this benefit and it paid out this year for her.
Most policies I set up have a Waiver of Premium Benefit and will be kept in force by the insurance company if you are ill for over 6 months without you paying the monthly premiums. This will help your family more than you, but can give you peace of mind and save you the outgoing in the meantime.
Some pensions can be paid out in cash tax-free where life expectancy is a year or less which can seriously improve the quality of life for the short time left.
If it helps, get your adviser involved too.
The important point about the exercises above is that they can make you feel that you are back in control of your life again, and importantly give you the chance and focus to tick off some of those ambitions.